Causes of Child Marriage
Child
marriage has many causes: cultural, social, economic and religious. In many
cases, a mixture of these causes results in the imprisonment of children in
marriages without their consent.
Poverty: Poor families sell their children into marriage either to
settle debts or to make some money and escape the cycle of poverty. Child
marriage fosters poverty, however, as it ensures that girls who marry young
will not be properly educated or take part in the workforce.
"Protecting"
the girl's sexuality: In certain cultures, marrying a
girl young presumes that the girl's sexuality, therefore the girl's family's
honor, will be "protected" but ensuring that the girl marries as a
virgin. The imposition of family honor on a girl's individuality, in essence
robbing the girl of her honor and dignity, undermines the credibility of family
honor and instead underscores the presumed protection's actual aim: to control
the girl.
Gender
discrimination: Child marriage is a product of
cultures that devalue women and girls and discriminate against them. "The
discrimination," according to a UNICEF report on "Child Marriage and
the Law," "often manifests itself in the form of domestic violence,
marital rape, and deprivation of food, lack of access to information,
education, healthcare, and general impediments to mobility."
Inadequate
laws: Many countries such as Pakistan have laws against child marriage. The
laws are not enforced. In Afghanistan, a new law was written into the country's code
enabling Shiite, or Hazara, communities to impose their own form of
family law--including permitting child marriage.
Trafficking: Poor families are tempted to sell their girls not just into
marriage, but into prostitution, as the transaction enables large sums of money
to change hands.
Individual Rights Denied by Child Marriage
The
Convention on the Rights of the Child are designed to guarantee certain
individual rights--which are abused by early marriage. Rights undermined or
lost by children forced to marry early are:
- The right to an education.
- The right to be protected from physical and mental violence, injury or abuse, including sexual abuse, rape and sexual exploitation.
- The right to the enjoyment of the highest attainable standard of health.
- The right to rest and leisure, and to participate freely in cultural life.
- The right to not be separated from parents against the child's will.
- The right to protection against all forms of exploitation affecting any aspect of the child’s welfare.
- The right to eventual employment.
Case Study: A Child Bride Speaks
The
2006 Nepal Report on Child Marriage includes the following testimony
from a child bride:
"I
was married to a nine-year-old boy when I was three. At that point of time, I
was unaware of marriages. I don't even remember my marriage event. I just
remember that as I was too young and was unable to walk and they had to carry
me and bring me over to their place. Getting married at an early age, I was
destined to suffer a lot of hardships. I had to carry water in a small clay-pot
in the mornings. I had to sweep and swap the floor every day.
"Those
were the days when I wanted to eat good food and wear pretty clothes. I used to
feel very hungry, but I had to be satisfied with the amount of food that I was
provided. I never got to eat enough. I sometimes secretly ate corns, soybeans,
etc that used to grow in the field. And if I was caught eating, my in laws and
husband would beat me up accusing me of stealing from the field and eating.
Sometimes the villagers used to give me food and if my husband and in-laws
found out, they used to beat me up accusing me of stealing food from the house.
They used to give me one black blouse and a cotton sari1 torn into two pieces.
I had to wear these for two years.
"Never
did I get other accessories like petticoats, belts etc. When my saris got torn,
I used to patch them up and continue wearing them. My husband married three
times after me. At present, he lives with his youngest wife. Since I married at
an early age, early child-delivery was inevitable. As a result, I now have
severe back problems. I used to weep a lot and consequently, I faced problems
with my eyes and had to undergo an eye operation. I often think that if I had
the power to think like I do now, I would never go to that house.
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